New Leaf..

Adaptability is the most important ability to cope with change. We went through a lot of changes in our live in these recent months. Unexpected pregnancy, the decision of sal's job change, the decision of rie to stop working, moved out of town etcs .
To adapt is a word that is easy to say, but not easy to do.language barriers, issues in new place such as shelter, water, electricity, vehicles, weather and the rhythm of life, they all need adaptation. It was worsen by extended family conflict, health problems, childbirth preparation, and reduced family income.
So, how to solve?

Stay committed and endure...

Amen

Weekend schedule for married / engaged couples

For a married/engaged couple, sometimes 4 weeks a month never enough for people around us. The parents - the in laws - friends - they demand our time on weekend. But hey, we also need time to run errands, to escapade, and so on.
That's why, we commit to schedule our weekend into:
1 week of 'our own quality time,
1 week of family of Fai's time,
1 week of family of Rie's time,
1 week of friends and other errands time.
Of course these rules is for ' out of nest' couples only. we hope it could balance our life and will be fair for everyone.

xoxo

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